Days of My Life

Talk about daily life of a teenage girl in Iraq, and days of suffering and success. My nick name will be Sunshine..

Friday, July 15, 2005

Relationships...

Although I am affectionate , considerate, helpful& I easily make friendships, but I have a problem to contact with my father , I don’t have good relationship with him , we don’t agree with each other , because we had different opinions , he had never listened to me & that is hard for me, because he is my father right ? .& when I say my opining , he become angry , sometimes yelling ,& antagonize me . I don’t agree with his thoughts, but I try not to argue.
My mom always says to me that your dad cares about you, & I know that, but he don’t express his feelings.
He had never remembered my birthday, or asked me if I need anything, I used to keep my feelings from him,but I share it with my mother. She is my best friend.
She listens to me & share me her thoughts &plans.
We talk about every thing, when we go to somewhere, the people think we are sisters, she always elevate my incorporeal, & helps me to achieve my dreams .
My relationship with my both grandfathers are very good , they support me, they like my blog ,&encourage me.
My relation ship with my grandmother (in Baghdad) is very good &I love her very very much.
Although there is very big difference between me & my other grandmother (she live with us), but we have good relationship.
My sister (she is seven years) & I argue a lot, she don’t obey me in the contrary she do the opposite, & that make me sooooooooo angry.
My brother now is one year old, I love him very much, he stay with me when my mother is at work, he is so cute& funny.
Make good family relationships …
Sunshine ….

19 Comments:

At 4:33 AM, Blogger Christopher Trottier said...

Hey, I just want to wish you good luck. I don't know how life is like in Mosul, but whatever it is, just keep fighting on with life.

 
At 4:42 AM, Blogger firechild said...

know that prayers are with you...

 
At 5:03 AM, Anonymous Wayne said...

Sunshine, I wanted to tell you that I love your wonderful attitude. Rest assured that your father does love you. I had no daughters but 2 sons. I don't think I ever told them that I loved them but I'm sure they knew that I did. Do you ever hear from your aunt, who I only know as Rose? She and her husband hasn't posted in a long time. I hope they and their daughter are doing well. Tell your grandmother we are praying for her safety. Stay safe and keep your fantastic attitude.

 
At 3:20 AM, Blogger aNarki-13 said...

easy now Sunshine, its nothing to worry about.
I don't remember my father telling me he loves me and things like that, but I know (now) that he does.

its normal at your age, with all the hardships you encounter everyday, to feel neglected and alone.. hell, I'm almost 24 and still I feel like that at times!

easy now, رضا الله من رضا الوالدين, right?

:)
cheer up Sunshine, you'll see the light yet!

 
At 2:57 AM, Blogger Jack Bennett said...

Sunshine, I'm sure your father does love you. Some people just have a hard time saying it or can't say it all. Maybe he will read your blog and see that you want a better relationship with him

Keep well.

 
At 6:43 AM, Blogger Maddog said...

"Although I am affectionate , considerate, helpful& I easily make friendships"

Sunshine, just from reading your blog, I get the feeling that you are "exactly" what you say you are. Very friendly, affectionate, and a very nice Iraqi girl.

You are probably making too much of your differences with your dad. There is that everlasting love you will enjoy and question throughout your life with your family members. They are your family, after all. They know you, and you know them... so well.

From reading what you write, I think you are a very sensitive, loving, young wonderful female.

That's important.

Keep your hopes up! (and keep smiling!)

Maddog

 
At 4:41 PM, Blogger Kim said...

When I was a teenager my father and I used to argue alot. I think that fathers find it hard when their "little girls" start to grow up and have opinions that aren't the same as theirs. I am an adult now and my father and I get along much better. It is easier I think now that I am an adult and he can accept that we differ in some ways but in others we are very much alike. Hang in there Sunshine, sometimes men in our families just think a little differently than we girls, but rest assured, they do love!

 
At 12:31 PM, Blogger waldschrat said...

I am 61 years old.

When my father died, I had to clean out his houe and take care of all his possessions.

In one drawer I found a box containing greeting cards. As I examined them I realized that he had saved every card I had ever given him, birthday cards, fathers day cards, etc, etc.

I have never had children of my own but when I married my wife had a daughter from a previous marriage. I still have all the cards she ever gave me.

I never understood how much my father treasured these few small tokens of affection I offered him. I am sure my stepdaughter does not understand how much I treasure her. I know she alays preferred her mother's company and felt I was too strict and bossy.

Fathers love their children. It is harder for them to make this apparent than for mothers, I think, but it is true. Never doubt it.

 
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